Promises

Making vows to each other is a form of commitment. We believe that reading these vows regularly and each committing to live by them, is a strong way to keep the "feeling" alive...

Our vows...

1st is to each promise to try our hardest to fully respect the other in every and all circumstances.

2nd is to promise to always try to keep our line of communication open and talk openly with each other about the things we each feel are important... To talk in ways that allow each of us to help the other discover answers to our questions, problems, and concerns.

3rd is to promise to support each other no matter our opinion or even when we disagree.

4th is to each try to make the other feel loved every day.

5th is to commit to always have good intent no matter how upset we might be.

6th is to never give up on the other.

7th is to accept each other for who we are, and not try to change the other.

8th is to always be honest and open with each other

9th is to accept that we each take equal responsibility for the success or failure of our relationship and to never place blame when things are difficult.

10th we accept to view difficulties as challenges rather than seeing them as obstacles and accept that we will seek solutions to our challenges together

11th we accept that relationships require compromise and that these compromises will not always seem fair

12th we vow to strive to keep our intimacy sacred

13th we vow to never stop learning together

14th we vow to never make the other feel rejected

15th we vow to always support and nurture each other's dreams whether or not we like them or agree with them