The secret is simple...
We each must make the other FEEL loved EVERY day...
Making this happen is not always easy...
Vows
We believe that making promises to each other helps define us and remind us
of the little things we need to do to make this happen... Click
here to see the vows between Rhett & Scarlett... We also believe that
printing these promises and keeping them in a visible place as a reminder to
each other and then living by these promises, is a strong step to making the
feeling last...
But remember one thing... These promises only work if we keep them so it is important only to commit to things which you will give every effort to honor. Unkept promises
Another secret is how we communicate.
We believe that open communication is one of the keys to making the feeling
last. We feel that this is a skill that must be thought about, learned, and
worked at. Misunderstanding can be caused by many things and with it comes many
problems that drive the feeling away. Click here
to discover what we have found helpful in keeping this important part of our
relationship working.
Yet another secret we have discovered is to never stop dreaming together for the future. Our dreams together give us a reason to look forward to a tomorrow with each other. We do not believe that our dreams need to be exotic, or romantic, or even attainable. The dreams must simply be something we share and try to accomplish by working together for something we both seek.